Neon Green Flags that Scream 'Husband Material' for the Ladies Looking for their Prince Charming

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    Font - Posted by u/Ok-Bug4885 1 day ago What screams spouse material? nsfw
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    Font - Such-List680. 1 day ago Tries to see your side when you explain something. Also if he talks to dogs like they're babies. 16 Reply Share
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    Font - hammayolettuce. 1 day ago Respecting and caring about my thoughts and feelings more than they care about impressing their male friends. Reply Share 947 juicyjuicery 1 day ago Or caring about impressing strangers 161 Reply Share
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    Font - Justatroubledgirl. 1 day ago Assertive, time to time chivalrous. Kind but not a doormat. Open minded. Willing to communicate, listen and improve. Does not judge nor shame anyone for their circumstances. Is reliable, and is a teammate instead of an 'alpha'. Well.. I think i just created a man too good to be true lol 332 Reply Share
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    Font - rainbowket 1 day ago Someone that stands up for me 4 78 Reply Share
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    Font - Sirziface 1 day ago Kind to animals, true to himself, independent in his actions and loyal 68 Reply Share
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    Rectangle - - 1 day ago Good communication and conflict resolution skills. The ability to work through a disagreement calmly and rationally. Sees problems as "us vs the problem" not "me vs you." 8.2k Reply Share
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    Font - Not-A-SoggyBagel · 1 day ago These traits were totally green flags. They are why I married my partner. We never argue or fight. We discuss the problem at hand and work at it together. Other green flags are they don't rely on me for a complete inventory of our home and aren't helpless when it comes to organizing, cleaning, planning and booking. We are equals. Reply Share 1.7k
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    Font - Inefficient-panda . 1 day ago "I'm not going to lie, I thought you were exaggerating about your family. But you're not crazy, they really do treat you like sh." Reply Share 3.0k . Aggressive_Ad_9774 - 1 day ago I always had a feeling that my family mistreated me, but nobody ever confirmed it and I thought "but how can my own family be like that? I'm probably just trying to be the vic m". When my boyfriend met them he was like "you see that they are super belitering to you right?". I knew
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    Font - ketohufflepuff. 1 day ago Good with kids. Flattered by but not interested in every person who hits on them - knows what they want. 2.0k Reply Share CallTheCode 1 day ago YES! The first bit of attention and they run off for greener grass. Like bro, just water your own? 625 Reply Share
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    Font - GreenBell6729. 1 day ago Someone who will have your back when things are difficult for you. Reply Share 1.4k
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    Font - JOO Similar-Audience6889 1 day ago Not running away from responsibilities 972 Reply Share CallTheCode 1 day ago This is a HUGE one. So many people run from their responsibilities as soon as they think the grass is greener elsewhere. Like another person said, security is everything. Security, trust, and be able to rely on your spouse to do the right thing for you and your family- even when things aren't all rainbows and butterflies. Reply Share 124
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    Font - niatyre 1 day ago Good banter, excellent communication, ain't afraid to say what's on his mind, won't be trying to play "macho man" if I wanna pay the food bill, sexual chemistry and is my best friend 683 Reply Share FlyExaDeuce 1 day ago She draws the line at Village People. Reply Share 161
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    Font - 1 day ago Being able to admit when you're wrong, picking your battles, but most importantly (to me); being able to open up about insecurities (not necessarily physical) to the other partner. It makes the partner feel dependable, trusted, and reinforces that the couple is in this together instead of being adversaries or competitors 456 Reply Share
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    Font - fairie88 1 day ago edited 4 hr. ago A man who can take my broken brain meltdowns, spotty memory, and erratic personality with a sense of humor. ETA: I think some people are taking this as me being ab 'e and him chuckling along nervously. That's not what I'm talking about at all. As for what I am talking about, see Mr. Bennet from Pride and Prejudice for reference. 202 Reply Share
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    Font - throwaway37865 - 1 day ago Ot Teamwork. That both parties in the relationship view the future as an "us" versus "I." I don't really have "I" thoughts anymore when it comes to bigger decisions, I'm usually thinking "would we like this" etc. Some guys I dated didn't realize that when dating I was vetting them. I would be deciding whether they'd be a good life partner. I know how a guy treats me is how he will treat his family/future kids... his level of involvement.
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    Font - My boyfriend always considered my needs. He will help me with things without me having to ask. He pitches in with chores at my place even though he doesn't have to. He immediately apologizes if he has upset me and then works on whatever I brought up. he helps carry the mental load of running a household. He takes really good care of my dog.
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    Font - I know he would be a really good dad and husband. I'm not ready for that time in my life yet, but I know he would be an equal partner. With some ex boyfriends, I couldn't see myself having equal support and felt like they'd probably want a more traditional way of doing things (all the parenting and housework falls on me) while they just go to work.
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    Font - vezzzag 1 day ago Responds to criticism in a non confrontational way, doesn't get defensive, willing to work with you + always honest ↑ 99 Reply Share
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    Font - marsattack13 - 1 day ago Taking an equal amount of responsibility for things in the relationship. Want to have dinner on Friday? Sure, I'll grab the groceries. Can you pick up the wine? The faucet in the bathroom is leaking. Ok, I'll call the plumber. I find it incredibly attractive when someone steps up to be an active participant in the relationship. It lets me know they are in it just as much as I am, and it signals to me that they would be a good life partner long term.
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    Font - StoicSinicCynic. 1 day ago Someone who's dependable and responsible, who puts in effort into running the household and is attentive to their loved ones' needs and tries their best to take care of their loved ones without needing to have it pointed out to them or being nagged to do things. Basically a level of maturity, empathy and holding oneself accountable. 14 Reply Share

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